You know, Hamilton does have pretty parts too

Although we are technically part of Hamilton, I never refer to myself as a Hamiltonian. But today I was reminded that I am often too hard on Hamilton. Like any other city it has its nice areas & its not so nice areas. This weekend is (the first annual?) Wingfest & we headed down there after Jason's swimming lessons. Sydney wanted to watch Jason's lessons & since today's was the last one the outing was a family affair. Apparently the spectators were marvelling at how he will jump in the pool all by himself (over & over again).

Anyway, back to why I am too hard on Hamilton. The event was held at Pier 8, which I had never been to & was really quite nice. There is a nice Williams Coffee Pub down there with a really nice patio (who knew?). Also, the kids loved to look at all the boats and the Canada Geese. I noted that there was a little trolley tour and a boat tour, both of which Sydney asked if we could do some day. Jason was not ready to leave watching the boats, but we did head down there to sample some wings. I'm not a big chicken wing person, but the [something] and Bulldog had some really good ones.

There was also rides & games for the kids so although it was a quite costly couple of hours, the kids had fun. Jason got to go on his first "big kid ride" and it was quite cute. He looked pretty unsure while he was on, but he didn't really want to get off. I seem to remember Sydney being exactly the same way. I'd love to share a picture, but apparently I need Bluetooth to get the pictures from my phone to my computer & that isn't happening right now.

So instead here is a picture of Sydney & I at Mom's last weekend. One thing Hamilton doesn't have is this family showing up at your garage sale. Sydney was in awe at how big the horses were.

Still not finished, but getting closer (we hope)

The kitchen still is not done, but at least our house around the kitchen is starting to come back to order. We are still waiting for the custom cabinet to arrive, so we are in waiting mode until it does. We cannot put in the rest of the lighting until the cabinets are done, nor can we get the backsplash done. However, over the weekend we did put more stuff away, put furniture & pictures where they belonged, & for the first time in 3 WEEKS! had a functioning sink in the kitchen. It may seem silly to take a picture of your sink, but I was so grateful to have it again that I had to capture the moment.

Although the kitchen is not "done" I am already loving the end result. When in the kitchen getting things ready for dinner or cleaning up- I can still be part of the action. I don't usually mind the prep, but when there is action going on I resent not being able to be part of it. Or when Brad is doing any of these things, I can watch, talk (& direct) as needed. The kids are liking it too because they can both be up with me helping & not get in each others way or my way. It is great. I'm not sure how "happy" Brad is about the whole result- I think he likes it, but he liked it well enough before. Maybe I should have made him do more of the cooking so that I would fully realize the benefit of the new experience.

Mother's Day

Mother's Day was great...Sydney slept in & Jason was quiet meaning that I got to sleep until almost 8am. It was wonderful!!! Then I was treated to breakfast made by Sydney & Brad, cleaned the house up a bit then headed out the door to meet Mom, Craig & Tyler in Kitchener for lunch. After that we headed back home to then welcome Brad's family to our home. All in all, it was a great day.

Sydney & Jason making their cards for GG, Nana, & Grandma.

Wild hair chef

Brunch with Nana

Cute cut

On Thursday I took Sydney to Cuts for Kids & 'treated' her to a haircut. I say treat because she sat in a Jeep & watched TV while getting her hair cut & then they paint their nails afterward. Although, I must say it looks pretty cute- especially when she lets me put the pigtails in that just end up curling like crazy.

She turned the car away from the TV for the picture, Sydney obviously wasn't impressed with the interruption.

Jason liked hanging out in the plane, but wanted in the Jeep as soon as Sydney was done. He still has awhile before he's going to need a haircut.

The end result (with curly tails!)

Mr. Serious is starting to smile more

He doesn't only smile, but poses for the camera!

My Heart Melts

There are many reasons that I had kids, but these pictures capture some of the moments of parenthood that truly capture my heart.

Cute things from this week

Part of the purpose of keeping this journal is to keep track of the cute things that kids say. Well, I have fallen off of that mark lately. I know that Sydney said a couple of things this week that now for the life of me I can't remember. Hopefully it will come to me later.

On Friday we took Jason for his speech assessment & I took Sydney with me. Although we had the talk before we went in that Mommy needed to talk to this woman & Sydney would need to play on her own, she kept asking me over & over to read a Curious George book. I felt so bad for saying 'no' and we never got a chance to read it when the session was over either.

As for Jason, he did pretty good showing her what he was supposed to show her. I was fearful that we would go in & he would just sit beside me the whole time. Fortunately she had some pretty good toys. She noted that he doesn't have very many different sounds, which makes it difficult to have a lot of words. She said his comprehension is very good, so good that we will need to be careful that we work hard to break our speech down into short phrases. Talking in normal sentences with him does not give him the chance to model words back to us. So, if you are around us & you hear us saying the same thing to Jason over & over again, you will know why. She also stated that his personality (stubborn) will make it even more difficult to see changes. He will do things in his own time- don't we know it!!!

So, Brad & I will be taking a Parent Course that will give us tools to help him & have a few sessions to monitor his progress. Let's just hope the time they call us for the group will work!

This weekend we are kid-free. Sydney & Jason are with Aunt Kim, Uncle Peter, Nana & Regan while Brad & I are putting the kitchen floor down & painting- will update you on that later.

Grace & Maddie Stolen Image

Robb & Michele have their own site for Grace & Maddie- not blogger mind you. Brad told me to check it out this morning for updates & saw this picture, so I had to steal it. I requested the video, but will have to see if they will give it to me (Grace is sucking on Maddie's head). It really is too cute not to share & the site they chose will not post videos (I will link to the site in the future if they say it is OK).

Gracie & Maddie

Due to the back-to-back illnesses in our family over the last month, I saw the twins for the first time since the hospital this weekend. Their proud Mommy & Daddy say they are doing very well, but I think Mommy is wishing for some more sleep.

I really need to think about their names because to me "Gracie" is a fair haired little girl & "Madeline" is a dark haired little girl- but these two are named the opposite!

Jason was amazingly cool with the little ones. He was very curious to see them & did not freak at all when I would hold one of them- although he was very close by. Sydney was surprisingly not very curious- I think that she may get the fact that more little girls in the house means more sharing of everyone's attention. :)

Grace

Madeline

MS Walk

Thank you to everyone who supported me on the WALK today. Thanks to your generosity I raised over $800! That is double what my goal was, but it means that next year I am going to shoot big & try to raise $1000.


Since Miss Sydney is sick, only Jason & I went but we had fun. I wore my jacket that I earned last year for my fundraising, so I put the shirt on Jason. He got some pretty big smiles from a lot of people. To keep him occupied, I set him up in the Chariot with books & a drink. He was really good for me & managed to stay awake until the last 10 minutes before he fell asleep.

Keep bring the nicer weather

Bikes & scooters are great Christmas gifts, but it is hard when you need to wait 4 months to be able to use them!

Mini Daycare

For the past 3 weeks I have watched my friend Tara's little girls on the Friday morning. Since I already had 2 extra, I figured I would make play dates out of it too. I must say things went remarkably well- but I will not be setting up my own daycare anytime soon!

Pretend "nap time"

For Julia's birthday I made cupcakes & the kids got to decorate their own.
The mess was not nearly as bad as I expected it to be.

I think I could have just saved time with the cupcakes & given Julia the icing & decorations.

Happy Birthday Julia!!!!

104.4

The theme of our household for the past two weekends??? 104.4 degrees. Last weekend, that was Jason's temperature & now this weekend it is Sydney's. The last month at the Taylor household has not been a healthy one. Brad luckily is still missing out, but it has not been a fun week for me. Many days I am working with little voice, but it seems to be getting better now.


This bleary eyed stare is all you saw of Jason last weekend & it is now replicated on Sydney's face. In a way I am thankful that they get the worst of it on the weekend, because then it does not affect work- but it does not make for a very fun weekend. Tomorrow I have to go to Montreal for the day, so I am not too thrilled that I won't see Sydney at all since she will be asleep when I leave & asleep when I get back. She will be with Brad's parents so at least I know she will be in good hands.

Last weekend Sydney helped her dad to make breakfast, this weekend she is just lying around. At least she is not "demanding" when she is sick (unlike her sibling). She wants to do stuff, just can't.

Now, The Taylors 5

Today we welcomed 2 more nieces to our family. Grace Isabelle was born at 8:53 am this morning and weighed 5 lbs 12 oz. She was soon followed a few minutes later by her sister Madeline Olivia who weighed 5 lbs 4 oz. It is amazing to see the difference 8 oz makes when someone is so small.

Grace is currently in the neonatal unit because she hasn't quite learned how to breathe outside of the womb yet, so they are forcing natural air through her nose. Hopefully over the next day she will learn how to breathe from her lungs and not her tummy. The neonatal nurses say that it is really rare that they see the larger twin in their unit, it is usually the small twin. Aside from the tubes and wires connected to her, she looks great.

Madeline (Ma-de-line, not Madelyn) aka Maddy(ie?) is doing well, but she also needed to add some excitement to the delivery. She was tucked nicely under Michele's hip bone & wasn't too interested in making it too easy for anyone. Michele was quite ready for these girls to come out and join the world, but it seems both of them were quite snug in their little home.

Mommy Michele is doing well and Daddy Robb is definitely the proud Daddy. He was busy carting everyone (2 sets of grandparents, 1 son, 1 aunt & 1 uncle) over to see Gracie. Mr. Max still seems overwhelmed by the whole experience & really who could blame the poor little guy. His world has changed drastically & although I am sure he will love his sisters dearly- I believe he is going to have a tough time adjusting to how busy Daddy & especially his Mommy are now going to be. I think Max will need to have a few sleepovers at our house when we get it back in order. Give him some time on his own.

Here are the pictures that I am sure you want to see.

Grace Isabelle Taylor
"Gracie"

Madeline Olivia Taylor
"Maddy"

Big Brother Max & Maddy

Proud family with Maddy

Over Indulgence

This weekend was a pretty fun one, but it did have its moments.

On Saturday I took Jason to buy the hardwood & a "first" happened. Jason actually was friendly & played with a stranger. I was talking on the phone with my father-in-law about a transportational difficulty & Jason cavorted with the nice gentleman at the store. Shocking!

While we were gone Sydney & Brad had their "special time" and Sydney informed me later that she never wanted to have special time with me again. Well- isn't that just what every Mom wants to hear?!? Not sure what I did to deserve such a statement. I also am not sure what we are in for when hormones start playing a role, but last week was a very "dramatic" week. I swear the gray hairs that are sprining up on my head (grrr!) are the direct result of my frustration with the "attitude" that is starting to develop & she hasn't even gone to school yet!

Saturday night we attended a wedding for a guy that Brad & I work with. It was a really nice time, but I chose this night to request that Brad be the DD. Considering I have been DD for 4 years now, he did owe me. Typically by not being a DD that allows me to have more than 2 drinks over a 4 or 5 hour period. The problem is at best estimate I had at least triple that & man, oh man, did I pay for it.

The wedding truly encouraged drinking- never seen anything like it- but it was very fun. It was a civil ceremony & drinks were available during the ceremony. You also got a shooter right when you walked in & all through dinner the waiter was willing to go to the bar for you on top of the wine he was serving at the table. Add to that the woman sitting beside me was drinking & I think I was subconsciously pacing myself with her- BIG MISTAKE- she is obviously a "better" drinker than I & I am sure that she did not pay for it in the same manner I did.

The saddest part is that we had to leave the wedding at 11pm to get home to relieve our babysitters because Dale had to go to work for midnight. So, I managed to get myself in this state in only 6 hours. The next morning I told Brad that he was going to have to go alone to my Mom's with the kids because I didn't think I could do it. It was really pathetic. After a couple of wakeful hours I realized that I could stand without having to rush to the bathroom & could face the ribbing that I would undoubtedly get from my family. Surprisingly it wasn't too bad- my husband seemed to get the most enjoyment out of the experience. Probably because he knows that he is good for about another 5 years before he will need to be DD again.

I am happy that we did not have the camera out to get the horrendous site that I am sure that I was, but I am regretful that Brad & I didn't take a picture before we went out. I can't remember the last time we had our picture taken together.

So, the only pictures I have are from our belated Easter.

Yes, that is Natalie sleeping right below all the commotion.
She seems to be a pretty content, laid back little lady.

Jason of course was his sociable self and was attached to me most of the day.

Proud Grandma & Ben

And the hunt is on!!!

Tyler was trying to help Jason out by pointing out where the candy was, but Jason kept trying to give it back to him. I think he thought that it was Tyler's.

Six More Days...

In less than a week we will have 2 more nieces. Michele is scheduled for her c-section next Tuesday, but is praying that the girls decide to move it along before then.

I cannot wait to meet Grace, or Rachel, or Madeline, or Olivia- whatever the names I am sure they will be darling!

Poor Michele is not moving too far or too fast these days & is looking forward to normal movement again.

Easter Recap

At the end of the day we asked Sydney what her favourite part of the day was & her answer was...church. Wow, not the answer we expected but I sure liked hearing it considering how much I know she loved hunting eggs.

Jason has a new word. Ehggg!!! Really loud & really exaggerated. It did not take him long to catch onto things.

Yes, you will note that we still have a plywood floor.